Communicate?Not having good communication skills can have a negative effect on our well being, can lead to frustration, anger, arguments, the feeling of being disconnected and not being able to express love.
Men with the ability and confidence to communicate effectively are more likely to successfully negotiate anything they want. Lacking the confidence to say ‘no’ to the things we don’t want can lead to sabotaging of living a happy, fulfilling and successful lives.
Communication is more than the words we speak. Communication is about who we are and how we express ourselves and relate to the world. Communication is the message we deliver through non-verbal as well as verbal means. Communication is the ultimate expression of who we are.
Let me share with you my 4 top secrets i use constantly to help my clients to communicate their wants and needs from place of love. Experiment with these ideas to begin to experience communication with love and life more powerfully.
Men with the ability and confidence to communicate effectively are more likely to successfully negotiate anything they want. Lacking the confidence to say ‘no’ to the things we don’t want can lead to sabotaging of living a happy, fulfilling and successful lives.
Communication is more than the words we speak. Communication is about who we are and how we express ourselves and relate to the world. Communication is the message we deliver through non-verbal as well as verbal means. Communication is the ultimate expression of who we are.
Let me share with you my 4 top secrets i use constantly to help my clients to communicate their wants and needs from place of love. Experiment with these ideas to begin to experience communication with love and life more powerfully.
1. Be clear about what you want to express. What do you most want the other person to understand? What is the primary idea, concept or message you want the other to understand as a result of your communication? Often we spend more time speaking about superficial matters rather than addressing the core, significant and underlying concepts. To communicate effectively with another requires an inner clarity and a thorough communication with your self (You can't make a request if you don't know what you want!). (Tip: Check in with yourself frequently and ask yourself what you most want from the situation. Any situation.)
2. Tact and good manners matter. But don't let good manners inhibit you from speaking your truth! If your communication isn't honest, integrity is lost and relationships suffer. Tact matters as much as honesty! (Tip: Ask yourself if you're hiding under the pretense of manners because "I don't want to hurt their feelings." Are you using this as an excuse to avoid acknowledging or expressing your perspective? Develop tact and be compassionate in your truthfulness.)
3. Precision matters. Expressing yourself fully involves choosing your words precisely. We're frequently sloppy in our communication and speak in vague terms. What suffers is that concepts and feelings don't come to life when we're not communicating clearly - our communication doesn't sparkle with life! Effective communication involves using precise language - words that accurately reflect and express our experience, perceptions, dreams, desires and disappointments. (Tip: the more specific your words are, the more profoundly others will understand you.)
4. Perspective matters. From what perspective do you speak? We each have different perspectives based on our positions, motivations & needs. Understand the framework you speak & listen from. Recognize that your framework influences how you listen and what you listen for. (Tip: Enhance communication by observing the filters and paradigms we listen through.)
If you are ready to take control of your life, learn to communicate with love, find your purpose, gain clarity and prepare yourself for Living Your Best Life, start now by signing up for the Live Your Best Life, Live Your Purpose Transformational Coaching Package, a breakthrough to Your Greatest Health, Wealth and Happiness, a Yearly program to assist you in shifting your life, removing those stubborn blocks that may be holding you back from the beautiful experience of Magnificent YOU. PLUS You’ll receive some terrific bonuses worth over £700 for FREE when you pay in advance, for more information please e-mail: info@thevelvetjourney.com
For more tips please sign up to my news letter, come along to next weeks Love2Commuicate workshop during which i will be going covering all the above into much more details and much more. To keep you motivated, you can also listen to me on Gaydio every Monday morning at 9:00 am.
If you find this tips and article useful please share it with your friends, family, colleagues, liked it, Email it, Blog about it, Share it on Twitter and Facebook. Sharing is Caring!
Tony J Selimi
Teacher of Inner Wisdom, Intuitive Coach, & Chakra Healer. Inspiring You to feel things deeply from Your heart, with kindness and compassion. In peace and prosperity,
Founder
HealOneSelf & The Velvet Journey
© London, May 2013
2. Tact and good manners matter. But don't let good manners inhibit you from speaking your truth! If your communication isn't honest, integrity is lost and relationships suffer. Tact matters as much as honesty! (Tip: Ask yourself if you're hiding under the pretense of manners because "I don't want to hurt their feelings." Are you using this as an excuse to avoid acknowledging or expressing your perspective? Develop tact and be compassionate in your truthfulness.)
3. Precision matters. Expressing yourself fully involves choosing your words precisely. We're frequently sloppy in our communication and speak in vague terms. What suffers is that concepts and feelings don't come to life when we're not communicating clearly - our communication doesn't sparkle with life! Effective communication involves using precise language - words that accurately reflect and express our experience, perceptions, dreams, desires and disappointments. (Tip: the more specific your words are, the more profoundly others will understand you.)
4. Perspective matters. From what perspective do you speak? We each have different perspectives based on our positions, motivations & needs. Understand the framework you speak & listen from. Recognize that your framework influences how you listen and what you listen for. (Tip: Enhance communication by observing the filters and paradigms we listen through.)
If you are ready to take control of your life, learn to communicate with love, find your purpose, gain clarity and prepare yourself for Living Your Best Life, start now by signing up for the Live Your Best Life, Live Your Purpose Transformational Coaching Package, a breakthrough to Your Greatest Health, Wealth and Happiness, a Yearly program to assist you in shifting your life, removing those stubborn blocks that may be holding you back from the beautiful experience of Magnificent YOU. PLUS You’ll receive some terrific bonuses worth over £700 for FREE when you pay in advance, for more information please e-mail: info@thevelvetjourney.com
For more tips please sign up to my news letter, come along to next weeks Love2Commuicate workshop during which i will be going covering all the above into much more details and much more. To keep you motivated, you can also listen to me on Gaydio every Monday morning at 9:00 am.
If you find this tips and article useful please share it with your friends, family, colleagues, liked it, Email it, Blog about it, Share it on Twitter and Facebook. Sharing is Caring!
Tony J Selimi
Teacher of Inner Wisdom, Intuitive Coach, & Chakra Healer. Inspiring You to feel things deeply from Your heart, with kindness and compassion. In peace and prosperity,
Founder
HealOneSelf & The Velvet Journey
© London, May 2013
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