I am often coaching clients who feel they lack personal power and charisma in their relationships.

Let me ask you a question, do you remember times when you tried to change someone's behaviour?  I'm quite certain at some point in your life you have!

When you tried to get someone to do something different, how did it go? What did you say? What did you do?  Most importantly how did the person react, where you aware of this or not? 

Naturally, I'm guessing it didn't go so well. Firstly, the person probably didn't change. Secondly, things probably got worse as the person became angry, silent, or defensive towards you.

The interesting thing is that not only you might have tried to assert yourself and persuade the person to your way of thinking, but you probably pushed them further away from where you want them to be, right?

It's frustrating, isn't it? The most common communication barrier people use in this situation is giving advice.

You try to send a solution to help the person. You think you are doing the person a favour by giving advice, but all you are really doing is making the person feel frustrated for having received the solution. Are you ready to discover more?

If you are wondering right now about wanting a great, easy, and a better life, you are most likely aware that big changes are difficult, and take time, but having spend over 10 years in the personal development industry there are many easy steps you can take right now. Take many steps, even small ones, and pretty soon you're getting somewhere. Just like when we first learn how to walk, step by step, and the more we practice the better we get at it.

What is stopping you having A Better Life Today?

It's easy just to look, or simply don't follow our desires with the required actions, right? Start looking for specific ways to make your life better, and to improve yourself. Even if you don't accomplish anything immediately, you are preparing yourself. Thinking about change sets your mind and your motivation in motion. We can learn and observe how nature handles this, once a seed is planted it will grow.

Communicate?Not having good communication skills can have a  negative effect on our well being, can lead to frustration, anger, arguments, the feeling of being disconnected and not being able to express love.

Men with the ability and confidence to communicate effectively are more likely to successfully negotiate  anything they want. Lacking the confidence to say ‘no’ to the things we don’t want can lead to sabotaging of living a happy, fulfilling and successful lives.

Communication is more than the words we speak. Communication is about who we are and how we express ourselves and relate to the world. Communication is the message we deliver through non-verbal as well as verbal means. Communication is the ultimate expression of who we are.

Let me share with you my 4 top secrets  i use constantly to help my clients to communicate their wants and needs from place of love. Experiment with these ideas to begin to experience communication with love and life more powerfully.