No wonder, in today busy and extremely demanding world we are so busy with dealing with what life through's at us on daily basis that we tend to forget what truly matters to us.
Let me ask you a question, when was last time reviewing your life and asking yourself who are you, what do you want from life and what's in your way? Take a moment as you read this and write down the answers to these 3 most important questions that if you want to overcome any obstacles that hold you back that you should know the answers for. I coach many clients on getting their life back on track, to overcome their limiting beliefs, and create the breakthroughs quickly and easily so that they can overcome the obstacles they might be facing. Today, i would like to share 12 obstacles that many of my clients face that holds them back from living the life of their dreams
Obstacle #2 No Knowledge on how to get the clarity, we are blessed we live in the age of internet, there is plenty of free resources on-line on various topics on personal development. Take time, do your research and create an action plan. If you need some extra help coaching can help you do that, there are many wonderful coaches out there, meet them for a coffee, get to know them and commit yourself to at least 12 weeks. I have now coached over 1000 people and helped them through their invisible barriers that were holding them back from moving forward. I have created "Design Your Life, Live Your Purpose" yearly Coaching program that can help you leap over those hurdles and create the results you one. For more information or to book, please visit http://www.thevelvetjourney.com/coaching.html
Obstacle #3 Stuck in your ways, i am sure you have come across the old saying " If you always do what you always have done, you will always get what you have always had". To create new results you need to be willing and accepting that you need to change.
Obstacle #4 Cant see the future, if you are in this space, i would suggest to start meditating and engage with your right brain, start visualising of the life you wish to live. Create a vision board.
Obstacle #5 Courage, you feel you have no courage to do what it takes to do to create the success and the life you want. If you have seen Wizard of Oz, you will know how to go about creating courage to get you to the next level, if not by all means get in touch, i also have combined energy healing and coaching consultations available to help you build courage, trust and belief.
Obstacle #6 Old Habits, lets face it we are just like animals, we create habits and we become habitual beings. Notice all of your habits, if not sure ask your family and friends, or boyfriends or girlfriends, they can give you a list of habits that they may like or dislike about you. On daily basis make an effort and create new habit that can support you in creating the life you want.
Obstacle #7 Can't do it on your own, believe me i have been there, i adopted a new attitude when i was facing life challenges, the London Para Olympics inspired me so much that i went ahead and got one more coach that i now work with. Get yourself a coach, every film star, famous person, athlete has one, why not you?
Obstacle #8 Distraction, you get easily distracted, it is in our nature to do so, however when the desire to change becomes bigger than the desire to play, a massive shift will happen for you. Find a purpose that has strong desire attached to it, this will help you remain focused.
Obstacle #9 Lack of Self-Belief, Confidence, this is major issue for many people out there, and it really can hold you back and stop you from living your best life. "Boost Your Confidence in 12 weeks" coaching program can help you with that, there are also many on-line resources to help you gain confidence. What i find is whilst i am believer in reading, watching videos, nothing can replace the human element, a great coach will pick up issues, old meta programming, and your beliefs that might be causing you to have lack of self confidence. Invest in getting yourself a coach, ask yourself right now if you had all the confidence what would you do in your life?
Obstacle #10 Not feeling worthy, i have coached and done energy healing with many clients to help them change their money blue print. What i find is most people deep down there are blockages where they don't feel good about themselves when they receive. If lack of self worthiness is an issue for you, get in touch and we can discuss how to best help you overcome that, you can e-mail me firstname.lastname@example.org.
Obstacle #11 Easier not too, let me ask you a question, how many times have you walked away from situations, people, conflict telling yourself its easier not too. This kind of behaviour can create many issues including break up of communication, procrastination, and simply not doing. If you are in this space, make a list of all the reasons why you should do it.
Obstacle #12 You don't Love what you do, i see on daily basis people going to work that they don't love, being in relationship that they do not like to be in, or having friends that most of the time are always negative. All of that can be change with one simple decision, start right now and Love yourself, with that the next question you need to ask yourself is: does this person, situation etc feels loving or not, if you don't get instant answer and you need to think about it, the answer is "No" so the sooner you become intuitive to listening to your true voice the faster you will start to overcome many of the obstacles you might be facing right now.
So if you are someone experiencing any of the above issues and want to take your life at the next level please get in touch email@example.com.
I invite you to come along to “Negativity Buster workshop” workshop to be held Sunday 28 th July
2013 in central London and let me take you on an inner journey, learn to let go negative emotional charge, people, let go of deep emotional hurt that hold you back and so that you can start living your best life.
Book Now at http://fromnegativetopositive.eventbrite.co.uk/
Stay happy always,
©Tony J Selimi, Founder of The Velvet Journey & HealOneSelf, Transformational Life Coach, Chakra Healer, Reiki Master, Life Artist and Teacher of Inner Wisdom.